


Our relationship has been very transformative for both of us so far. There was kind of just a feeling of this being “it.” He lived alone in his place for 10 years I moved in after 8 months. I love having this type of connection with someone.įor two highly independent people who are comfortable and happy alone, we made a strong commitment to each other relatively quickly. It felt natural and easy to do with each other. We went deep when we talked-no holding back, very honest and open, right out the gate. The first week of us hanging out was very intense and intimate, but not physically at all-we spent hours discussing our views and experiences in life, art, relationships, watching shows and movies, sharing meals. There is definitely a magnetic attraction! I was not as conscious of it at first He says he felt instantly attracted to me and wanted to know me more the first time we met, even though we barely spoke. The first time we made a plan to hang out one on one, we ended up spending most of every single day together for an entire week (and haven’t really stopped since). We knew each other socially for a little while through a mutual friend and were both happily single/casually seeing other people. My Pluto is also conjunct his Sun (Scorpio), so that might be at play here too! My Venus (Gemini) trines his Pluto (Libra). I have this in synastry with my partner and can speak to my experience.
